Did you find it refreshing to see Milly Dowlers family not preaching forgiveness?

maybe refreshing is not the right word please dont give out about my word choice, cant think of anything else to describe what i mean. They said, i hope he really suffers and an eye for an eye, and those kinds of things. dreadful what they were put through. and i agree with them. if it was my little sister, god forbid, id be thinking the very same things. hope people listen to them.